scarlettina: (Airplane)
I just got off the phone with my sister-in-law and my niece. I haven't seen them in nearly two years, and I understand that my niece, who is 12, has changed some since the last time I saw her. It's that time of her life, of course. We'll be seeing each other in the spring and I'm very much looking forward to it. It's funny, though--talking on the phone, her conversational patterns are the same. I have to ask all the questions and I work hard to not ask yes/no questions because that's pretty much all I'll get. But her mom tells me she's reading a lot (which I'm completely delighted about). And when I look at her wishlist on Amazon.com, I see that her tastes are changing, becoming more teenaged girl than they have been before. On the one hand, I hate being so far away and not being able to see her more (not to mention, of course, my brother and sister-in-law). On the other hand, I get to see her grow and change in leaps rather than in tiny increments, and there's something very cool about that.

This weekend, my brother is visiting my cousin P, whom I saw a couple of weeks back. I haven't spoken to him while he's been traveling, but my sister-in-law has. She says she expects him to come home a mess. I don't doubt it. I had such a hard time myself. I know that my last visit is probably the last time I'll see Cousin P; that's true for my bro as well. He heads back to Long Island (from southern CA) today; in fact, he's flying as I type. I don't envy him the flight. I wish I could be there to give him a hug when he lands.
scarlettina: (Seattle Space Needle)
Friday night, I couldn't sleep. Well, more precisely, I slept deep and then woke at 3:20 AM. I lay in bed for about a half hour, realized I was wide awake, got up, and never went back. This ended up giving me a little time to do more decluttering, tidying, and planning for the week.

The plan for the day was to meet the family, [livejournal.com profile] overratedomac, and his daughter S at the Space Needle at 10 AM. I picked up Cousin P and off we went. It was a beautiful day--we've been fortunate in having just wonderful weather, if occasionally a little chilly, so far since the family arrived. I couldn't have asked for better views from the top of the Space Needle. S and my niece V hit it off pretty well; by the end of the day, they were thick as thieves (which was part of the point of she and her dad joining us--giving Niece V a little age-appropriate companionship on what will otherwise be a relatively kid-free vacation). They also good-naturedly played tug of war with me in between. The second half of the day, I had an 8-year-old girl on either side of me, clinging fiercely to my arms, declaring, "Mine! Mine! Mine!" like the seagulls in Finding Nemo. It was both hilarious and pretty sweet.

After descending from the clear blue sky, we poked around Seattle Center a bit, visiting the International Fountain and letting the girls run around the Labyrinth that had been laid down out by EMP. We then went to Pacific Science Center specifically to visit the butterfly house. Cousin P had a wonderful time there--he's a butterfly enthusiast and his delight at being able to show off his knowledge and photograph the butterflies in practically ideal conditions was clear. Around 4:30, we all parted company to freshen up, and then met up again for dinner at Costas Opa in Fremont. The food was, as usual, very good, and we were surprised by a belly dancing performance in the restaurant. The dancer was quite good; with my tiny little bit of study, I understood more of what she was doing and how she did it than I ever have before.

We called it a day around 8ish, which was just as well. My sister-in-law was fighting a headache, and I was beginning to feel the effects of being awake for a ridiculously long time--also of being On and Playing Host and all the rest. I came home, did a little more planning for today, and then hit the sack around 9:30ish.

Today is supposed to be a little more low-key, but it will end with Niece V sleeping over--an event she absolutely insisted upon a couple of months ago. This will give the brother and sister-in-law a grown-up night on the town, since their first anniversary is just a few days from now.
scarlettina: (Madness)
So today, the Family descends upon us. By "Family" I refer to my brother, sister-in-law, niece, and cousin. By "us" I refer to my cat and myself. Yes, the Silverstein-Correntes and Dr. Levine arrive in Seattle today. To say that I've been making myself a little crazy over this event is to put it mildly. The house has been (mostly) decluttered and cleaned (with kudos to [livejournal.com profile] e_bourne and MD, heroes of the revolution, who did astonishing work last weekend, cleaning the kitchen and bathroom while I sorted through stuff to continue The Great Decluttering). Art and antique family photos have been hung. A new lamp has been acquired (a deal at Goodwill that I'm rather pleased with). One or two pieces of furniture have been rearranged. A couple of loads of stuff have been taken to Goodwill. Nine linear feet of books have been chosen to be traded in at University Bookstore when the invasion concludes.

Yes, madness takes its toll. (As [livejournal.com profile] suricattus says, writers use Easy Pass. Or is that EZ Pass? Of course, that's in New York. In Seattle, we use Good to Go. Anyway, you get the gist. If my reaction to this visit isn't evidence of same, I don't know what is. Maybe it's [livejournal.com profile] suricattus' reaction to the revving up of her latest Kickstarter. You should go look.) (You see what I did there?)

My point, and I do have one, is that the family arrives today. I work until 2ish (maybe a little earlier) and then depart for visiting, tour guiding, and so forth. Maybe I should have just taken the day off. I don't know how much I'll get done today, frankly. But I wanted the hours, and I wanted to demonstrate my commitment to the new job. We'll see how it goes.

So, wait, why have I been making myself so crazy over this? Because this is only my brother's second visit to Seattle in nearly 17 years of living here. It's the first time my sister-in-law and niece have ever been here. And while my cousin has been here before, on business, it's the first time he'll have been to my house, and it's the first time he's proactively reached out to us to be family. I know it's all about the visit and no one's arriving, white glove in hand, to inspect my housekeeping. But I can't help wanting the place to look good and to make a good impression somehow.

Whew! I need to freakin' chill.

OK. Chilling commences. I have a few things to get done this morning before I depart for parts Eastside. Suffice it to say, as I have said before, there's no Norwescon for me this weekend. As much as I'll miss it (and I already do), this is going to be a different kind of awesome, and I'm genuinely glad for it.

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