Yes, that thought has occurred to me. I don't know if that would be precisely what I'm looking for. It's true that I've been going-going-going since he died with no time for quiet reflection, but I think there's more going on here. All the online hagiography ( as one friend puts it--and not incorrectly) still skirts around the human need for putting a cap on a life. Jay's family got it, and a couple of select friends, but not the rest of us. I've heard mumblings about something to be held at Orycon, but that's f'ing months away, and I don't intend to sit on my feelings until it's convenient or comfy for everyone else. I need to figure something out.
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Date: Mon, Jun. 23rd, 2014 03:33 pm (UTC)